A couple of Saturdays ago, I celebrated my birthday in Yerevan with some other PC volunteers, knowing that we probably wouldn't be able to get together on my actual birthday, a Thursday. It was great. Rosa, Dave, and Megan cooked a bona fide American dinner at the hostel's kitchen, replete with roast beef, three-cheese macaroni and cheese, broccoli, and brownie sundaes. Later, we went out to an Irish pub (ironically named 'Irish Pub') and had a couple of imported beers. The weather was balmy (in the 60's!), the food divine, and the company sublime. To put the icing on the cake, pun intended, we visited a newly-opened Mexican restaurant three times over three days. Opened by a Los Angeles native, the burritos and tacos and nachos and tapatio prompted new opinions of Yerevan and the quality of its offerings.
Then, we all headed back to site. Where there's no Mexican food. Where the weather corresponds with the elevation, prompting a fresh bout of snow (Martuni is a little bit higher than Timberline Lodge, for all you Oregon folk). Where there's no Rosa and Dave and Megan to make brownie sundaes. Plugged back into my routine, I went to school and conducted my clubs, tucking my chin and pumping my fists to make it past this last bend to spring. Four days later, it was my birthday (and Brian's, too!), though I wasn't expecting much of a celebration as the PCV shindig had already happened.
It was in this state of mind that I walked to school with my host mom (who works as a nurse at the school). I should have known I was in for a surprise when the first students I saw uttered an excited "Happy birthday, Mr. Kyle!" (yes, in English). My host mom smirked a little bit, knowing what was in store for me.
I walked up to the teacher's room, where I usually meet my counterpart before class. She wasn't there, so I picked up the attendance book and walked to our first tenth form class, slightly ticked off that she was late. Then, as I opened the door to the classroom, a chorus of "HAPPY BIRTHDAY!" met me. My counterpart and the tenth form students were lighting the last candle on a stellar birthday cake for me. 24 (!) candles were punctuated by several renditions of "Happy Birthday to You" and students blowing up balloons and finishing the decorations in the classroom.
Given the scope of the celebration, I figured that the rest of my birthday would be celebrated outside of school. Lo and behold, four students in my next class came in with a painting that the class had pooled money together to buy for me. A student signed the back for the class, and I promised to put it up in my new house just as soon as I move out. At this point, I figured the last class of the day might have something in store for me. Sure enough, my counterpart and I walked in to find cookies, soda, and a bottle of cognac for me. I couldn't help but chuckle at the cultural differences present in students deciding to buy alcohol for their teacher's birthday.
I tried to take pictures with my cell phone camera of my classes and their presents. As soon as I can figure the technology out, I'll get them posted.
Later that day, my host family made my favorite Armenian dish for me--dolma--and we had a nice, quiet night. What a ride.
I like to think of the romantic version of Peace Corps Service being one where the PCV is a celebrity in his or her village, adored by all and taken care of by the village community. For the most part, I've realized that this truly is a romantic idea of service. Every day brings its own hardships and homesicknesses, making my presence in Armenia difficult, monotonous, invigorating, uplifting, frustrating, transcendent, and ethereal all at once. Notice that 'romantic' didn't quite make the list. Last Thursday, though, proved that the stars can align. My students, colleagues, family, and community came together to celebrate my birthday. I felt appreciated, valuable, and at home. Best of all, it renewed my motivation for these two years of mine.
I'll close with quoting an email I received from a friend of mine down in Martuni:
"Dear Kyle, today you are not in your home with your parents, with friends,
you are far away from your country & family...
But here you are not alone, here you have friends, that ready to help you with anything!!!"
It's stuff like that that makes me want to help back.
p.s. Thanks for all the birthday wishes from back home!